As my tours begin, I consistently hear the same questions from nervous travelers;  “how do you say ‘please?’” or “how do you say ‘thank you?’” or “how do you say ’sorry?’” No matter which country we are in, I answer these questions the same way, every time. I say, “please, thank you and sorry!” It’s really that easy, because just about everyone in Europe knows at least those English words, if not many more.

That being said, I understand the desire to speak a few polite words in the local language, and it’s really rewarding to see how much even the smallest amount of effort is appreciated, but if worst comes to worst, you can always resort to the comfort of your English words to communicate a simple gesture or need. Of course, it’s great to know basic phrases, but if you are truly nervous, using English and some telling hand gestures can usually get your message across. Human emotion and basic needs are without language, so if you are in a tight situation, chances are a kind local will understand the problem and come to your aid.

Often, though, you won’t need to communicate in distress. This is a vacation, after all! So, when you feel like ordering a croissant from a neighborhood café, a verre de vin from a romantic restaurant, or a kebab from a roadside vendor, do throw in the few polite phrases you have learned in that country’s tongue.